super additional additions

Non-negotiables:
1. true disciple. (humbly depends on God alone)
2. trustworthy & full of integrity. (does what he says and says what he does.)
3. genuinely good hearted. (it hurts for him to hurt others, he cares about people too much)
4. assertive/considerate/thoughtful/compassionate (good noonchi & high emotional intelligence)
5. passionate & hardworking. (about something worthy)
6. giving and generous. (in all ways, but esp. with quality time and emotional sharing)
7. fun! with the same sense of humor (please?)
8. devoted (eyes wholly on me) & protective ( like a rottweiler~)
9. sociable and gregarious (no cavemen allowed!)... but not flirty

02/2011---
Addition:
10. understands who i am and connects with me on a deep level

08/2011------
Super Additional Additions:
11. demonstrates true sacrifice & selflessness
12. forgiving & grace-ful (with Christ-like unconditional love)
13. patient & wise (knows when to cham-muh and when to speak up)
14. gentle hearted & loving & caring
15. teachable & yielding (like softened clay)
16. determined, hardworking, committed (ah, the art of compromise)
17. great leadership skills (but also submits to authority- esp. God's!)
18. accepting (because we all fall short of God's glory and grace)
19. supportive (emotionally available and open)

10/2011
Super Super Additions
20. filled with the Holy Spirit (shameless persistence for more of it)
21. humble and private (cuz true humility comes from God)
22. dignified, respectable
23. manly (in more ways than just the outer shell)
24. makes me feel super special and precious

04/2012
Super More Super Additions (the list never ends)
25. good communicator (knows how to open up and express his emotions)
26. always prayerful and full of faith

06/2012
GIANT SUPER more additions:
27. not attention seeking
28. mature (emotionally, physically, spiritually, socially)
29. kind and friendly... definitely not an ounce of douchey-ness.
30. believes that i can be someone greater than i am (and encourages me to be my best)
31. patient about my shortcomings (good listener)
32. intelligent and articulate (can carry good conversation for hours)
33. not critical of me or others
34. HEALTHY and free from addictions (drugs, alcohol, attention, prn, relationships, sexual impurity, $$$, prestige, spending, gambling, mama's boy image, etc)
35. constant and consistent (so i know what to expect!!! sheesh)
36. considers others better than himself (and does not look out for his self-interests)

09/2012
ridiculously more additions:
37. honorable
38. sexually attractive but firm in his conviction of purity
39. grounded and sensible


#1: loves me more than he loves himself and loves God more than he loves me.



i refuse to settle for anything less.
God is faithful!!!!

wait a minute.... these are all things that i should prepare as well....  looks like i have a lot of work to do! =/